How to Understand and Get a Girl to Like You

Like a girl? But don't understand her? you have come to the right wiki how!! Read on! Remember most of this information for future reference!!


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    Remember that Girls Are Very Sensitive And Emotional: Unlike guys, girls get upset quite easily it may be their hormones or just a girl thing, they might cry if they are sick, angry, happy, you never know when we are going to break down and cry! Don't be mean about it! Use this to your advantage if you like them! Hug them, hold them tight or even try to kiss them although this does not work for all girls it does work for some!
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    Girls Like to Be Physical and Like to Be Touched: Remember, do not "steal a kiss or cop a feel" unless you are romantically involved. If you do, however, make sure she does not mind, otherwise, she will refute your approach and you do not want that. Also, if you are unsure of how to get to that stage, start small, touch her on the arm lightly to get her attention. Or you could help her up if she falls, the little things count.
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    Understand that Girls Spend A Lot Of Time On Their Looks: Why you ask? For you (guys) to impress you, or impress other women. Don't criticize them on their looks even if you don't like it compliment them. If They got a new haircut ask if they got a new haircut and tell them it looks nice on them! Girls will be quite flattered.
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    Know that Friends Matter: Don't be mean to their friends, they are very close with their "girlfriends" they hug and so, some things girls do may seem a bit touchy-feely but that's just how we are even to other girls its just a girl thing so don't think we are on the other side of the fence so to speak
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    Know that most Girls Are Mature: Girls are much much more mature than guys are, research shows that girls are 2-3 years more mature than guys are, so while you may be in a stage where you think burping or telling dirty jokes is hilarious girls do not think so and this will probably creep them out so if you want them to like you, Do not do this.
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    Girls Love To Be Remembered: If a girl tells you something about herself: Remember it. If she tells you her favorite flower, remember that and give her 3-5 of those flowers on a special occasion. If you know her favorite color, use that. E.g. Her favorite flower is a pink daisy: you take 4 of these and take her favorite color, which in this example is green, then take a ribbon of that color, tie it around the flowers, and give it to her. She will definitely like this and maybe even like you.

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      • Girls love to talk, so ask her questions about herself and as seen above remember things she tells you.
      • Talk to her every day, whether you run into her in the halls or at the mall stop and talk to her.
      • Flirt with her. Don't flirt with 200 girls, but just a few, or she will think you are a player.
      • Get involved in sports. Girls like guys who do sports.
      • Take her out to do things but this doesn't necessarily mean that your asking her out, you can just be going out as "friends".
      • When you are at a party and she is there take her to a private place and if you like her tell her how you feel, this way you won't face embarrassment if she rejects you, and if you feel that she likes you kiss her.


      • Never be rude or mean to a girl.
      • Some of this will not work for all girls, so don't expect them to work every time.

      Things You'll Need

      • Personality
      • Good Hygiene
      • Attractive Clothes
      • Friends
      • Luck

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